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Der US-amerikanische Psychologe und Autor des Buches Unmasking Narcissism – A guide to understanding the narcissist in your life, Dr. Mark Ettensohn, betreibt einen Youtube-Kanal mit hervorragenden Informationen zum Thema. Anders als nahezu alle, der inzwischen in großer Zahl verfügbaren Kanäle, welche regelmäßig eine dämonisierende Haltung einnehmen, ist Ettensohn bemüht, Narzissmus als die schwere psychische Störung darzustellen, die er ist und zu betonen, was zu oft überhaupt nicht gesagt wird: Auch Narzissten leiden! Sie wollen keine Narzissten sein und haben sich ihre kognitiv-emotionalen Einschränkungen und Barrieren nicht ausgesucht. Es wird empfohlen, mit den ersten, also frühesten Videos im Kanal zu beginnen und sich dann schrittweise neueren zu widmen.

Link to episode 1 in this series, on psychotic-level NPD: https://youtu.be/IoxUCbNUJUE Link to episode 2 in this series, on borderline-level NPD: https://youtu.be/Oz-C503q_9Y This is the third episode of a four-episode series describing the narcissistic personality style across different levels of severity. Due to the length of the material, this episode has been divided into three parts. This is part one. In this part, Dr. Ettensohn explores the developmental shift from borderline to neurotic-level personality organization, and how this shift transforms the inner life of individuals with narcissistic traits. Part one serves as a conceptual bridge—reviewing core ideas from earlier episodes while highlighting the emergence of psychological capacities that make neurotic-level functioning possible. These include the ability to maintain a continuous sense of self, to recognize others as enduring subjects, and to experience ambivalence, guilt, and loss without fragmentation. Through the lens of psychoanalytic developmental theory, Dr. Ettensohn illustrates how this shift brings with it new emotional burdens: the capacity to grieve, to feel remorse, and to live with an awareness of history. This part introduces the foundational concepts of subjectivity and historicity, which will be explored in greater depth in parts two and three. References: Kernberg, O. F. (1984). Severe personality disorders: Psychotherapeutic strategies. Yale University Press. Ogden, T. H. (1986). The matrix of the mind: Object relations and the psychoanalytic dialogue. International Universities Press. Ogden, T. H. (1989). The primitive edge of experience. Jason Aronson. Winnicott, D. W. (1965). The maturational processes and the facilitating environment: Studies in the theory of emotional development. International Universities Press. Purchase Unmasking Narcissism: A Guide to Understanding the Narcissist in Your Life here: https://amzn.to/3nG9FgH SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://rb.gy/kbhusf LISTEN ON APPLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/cklpum LISTEN ON GOOGLE PODCASTS: https://rb.gy/fotpca LISTEN ON AMAZON MUSIC: https://rb.gy/g4yzh8 VISIT THE WEBSITE: https://www.healnpd.org
The Birth of Sorrow: Crossing into Neurotic-Level Narcissism
In this video, Dr. Ettensohn examines the growing claim that Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is almost entirely genetic, offering a critical, clinically grounded reflection on what the current science actually supports—and where it falls short. He discusses how genetic contributions to personality traits are often misunderstood, and why claims of “hardwired narcissism” oversimplify a profoundly complex developmental process. Drawing from empirical research, neurodevelopmental theory, and clinical observation, Dr. Ettensohn explores how narcissistic pathology emerges not simply from temperament, but from early relational experiences—especially chronic emotional neglect, inconsistent attunement, and conditional regard. He addresses how brain plasticity, diagnostic controversies, and the misunderstood vulnerable core of NPD further complicate the genetic narrative. This video offers a nuanced perspective for anyone seeking to understand NPD beyond reductive models, emphasizing the importance of relational context, developmental history, and psychological depth. References: Brummelman, E., Thomaes, S., Nelemans, S. A., Orobio de Castro, B., Overbeek, G., & Bushman, B. J. (2015). Origins of narcissism in children. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 112(12), 3659–3662. https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1420870112 Chen, Y., Jiang, X., Sun, Y., & Wang, Y. (2023). Neuroanatomical markers of social cognition in neglected adolescents. NeuroImage: Clinical, 38, 103501. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.nicl.2023.103501 Gatz, M., Reynolds, C. A., Fratiglioni, L., Johansson, B., Mortimer, J. A., Berg, S., & Pedersen, N. L. (2006). Role of genes and environments for explaining Alzheimer disease. Archives of General Psychiatry, 63(2), 168–174. https://doi.org/10.1001/archpsyc.63.2.168 Horton, R. S., Bleau, G., & Drwecki, B. (2006). Parenting Narcissus: What are the links between parenting and narcissism? Journal of Personality, 74(2), 345–376. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1467-6494.2005.00380.x Luo, Y. L. L., Cai, H., & Song, H. (2014). A behavioral genetic study of intrapersonal and interpersonal dimensions of narcissism. PLOS ONE, 9(4), e93403. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0093403 Nenadić, I., Lorenz, C., & Gaser, C. (2021). Narcissistic personality traits and prefrontal brain structure. Scientific Reports, 11, 15707. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-021-94920-z Otway, L. J., & Vignoles, V. L. (2006). Narcissism and childhood recollections: A quantitative test of psychoanalytic predictions. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 32(1), 104–116. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167205279907 Schulze, L., Dziobek, I., Vater, A., Heekeren, H. R., Bajbouj, M., Renneberg, B., & Roepke, S. (2013). Gray matter abnormalities in patients with narcissistic personality disorder. Journal of Psychiatric Research, 47(10), 1363–1369. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychires.2013.05.017 Skodol, A. E. (2012). The revision of personality disorder diagnosis in DSM-5: What’s new? Current Psychiatry Reports, 14(1), 39–43. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11920-011-0243-2 🎥 Become a Channel Member: youtube.com/channel/UCHeT5kujD1JqHRAi-x8xD-w/join
80% Genetic? The Myth of Hardwired Narcissism
Discover how unprocessed loss fuels the cycle of grandiosity and conditional love. This short discusses the path to healing through confronting emotional wounds and fostering genuine connections. IEmbrace vulnerability and rebuild authentic relationships. From Dr. Ettensohn video on the false self: https://youtu.be/x-dxKycx7i8 #HealingJourney #EmotionalGrowth #Narcissism #Authenticity #SelfAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #InnerChildHealing #GenuineConnections #Vulnerability #LoveAndValidation
Breaking Free: Healing from the Chains of Grandiosity
Explore how a narcissogenic environment shapes pathological narcissism in children. Discover the impact of emotional neglect and caregiver pressure on a child's development and the formation of a false self to meet parental expectations. From Dr. Ettensohn's video on the false self: https://youtu.be/x-dxKycx7i8 #PathologicalNarcissism #NarcissogenicEnvironment #ChildDevelopment #EmotionalNeglect #FalseSelf #NarcissismSpecialist #ParentingTips #PsychologicalInsights #MentalHealthAwareness #CaregiverInfluence
Understanding Pathological Narcissism: The Narcissogenic Environment
In this Weekly Insight, Dr. Ettensohn shares an adapted preview from his upcoming video on narcissism at the neurotic level of personality organization. He reflects on what it means to move toward psychological integration, emotional complexity, and the capacity for self-reflection - especially for those doing this work without a therapist. Drawing from clinical understanding and developmental theory, Dr. Ettensohn discusses how self-acceptance, mindfulness, and the capacity to tolerate imperfection are crucial aspects of healing. He emphasizes the importance of allowing history to be real, recognizing and managing splitting, and loosening rigid self-perceptions that often emerge from narcissistic defenses. Using metaphor, lived experience, and grounded strategies, he shows how healing becomes possible even outside the therapeutic relationship when we begin to relate to ourselves differently. 🎥 Become a Channel Member: youtube.com/channel/UCHeT5kujD1JqHRAi-x8xD-w/join
History, Wholeness, and Acceptance: Healing Without a Therapist
Learn about the impact of pathological narcissism on self-esteem and relationships. From Dr. Ettensohn's video on attachment and NPD: https://youtu.be/hvOSWypH3Ak #PathologicalNarcissism #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfEsteem #AttachmentTheory #PsychologyInsights #NarcissismTreatment #EmotionalWellbeing #MentalWellness #UnderstandingNarcissism #HealthyRelationships
Understanding Pathological Narcissism: Insights and Solutions
Explore the four adult attachment styles and their roots in childhood experiences. Atachment anxiety and avoidance shape our relationships and self-perception, offering insights into fostering healthier connections. From Dr. Ettensohn's video on attachment and NPD: https://youtu.be/hvOSWypH3Ak #AdultAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #Psychology #EmotionalWellness #SelfAwareness #MentalHealthMatters #ChildhoodDevelopment #HealthyRelationships #UnderstandingYourself
Understanding Adult Attachment Styles: A Guide to Relationships
Uncover the hidden pain behind narcissism and learn how self-empathy can heal. Witness the transformation that follows. From Dr. Ettensohn's video on attachment and NPD: https://youtu.be/hvOSWypH3Ak #NarcissismHealing #InnerChild #SelfEmpathy #MentalHealthMatters #Compassion #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #SelfLove #HealingJourney #MindfulnessPath
Healing Narcissism: Embrace Your Inner Child with Empathy
Avoidant children and narcissists share a common background of emotional invalidation, often stemming from their early experiences with cold and aggressive parental figures. This video explores the impact on their emotional needs and attachment styles. From Dr. Ettensohn's video on attachment and NPD: https://youtu.be/hvOSWypH3Ak #AvoidantPersonality #Narcissism #EmotionalHealth #AttachmentTheory #Parenting #MentalHealthMatters #ChildDevelopment #EmotionalInvalidation #Psychology #UnderstandingNarcissism
The Hidden Connection: Avoidant Kids and Narcissism
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